Troubleshooting Guide
Step-by-step solutions for common AuPairSync issues. If these don't solve your problem, contact support.
🔄 Sync & Connection Issues
App Won't Sync / Data Not Updating
Symptoms:
- Changes not appearing for other family members
- Calendar events showing old information
- Messages not sending
- Tasks not updating
Solution Steps:
Step 1: Check Internet Connection
- Open Safari and try loading a webpage
- Verify Wi-Fi is connected (Settings → Wi-Fi)
- Or verify cellular data is enabled (Settings → Cellular)
✅ If internet works, proceed to Step 2
❌ If internet doesn't work, reconnect to Wi-Fi or enable cellular data
Step 2: Force Refresh
- Open AuPairSync
- Navigate to any screen (Calendar, Tasks, Messages)
- Pull down from top of screen and release
- Wait for refresh spinner to complete
✅ If data updates, issue resolved!
❌ If data still old, proceed to Step 3
Step 3: Force-Quit and Reopen
- Swipe up from bottom of screen (or double-click home button)
- Find AuPairSync in app switcher
- Swipe up on AuPairSync to force-quit
- Tap AuPairSync icon to reopen
- Wait 30 seconds for sync
✅ If data updates, issue resolved!
❌ If data still old, proceed to Step 4
Step 4: Sign Out and Sign In
- Open AuPairSync
- Tap Settings → Account
- Scroll to bottom
- Tap "Sign Out"
- Tap "Sign In"
- Enter your email and password
- Wait for sync to complete
✅ If data updates, issue resolved!
❌ If data still old, proceed to Step 5
Step 5: Restart iPhone
- Press and hold Side Button + Volume Down
- Slide to power off
- Wait 10 seconds
- Press and hold Side Button to turn on
- Open AuPairSync
- Wait for sync
✅ If data updates, issue resolved!
❌ If data still old, contact support
Advanced Troubleshooting:
- Check with other family members if they can see updates (isolate issue)
- Update iOS: Settings → General → Software Update
- Update AuPairSync: App Store → Updates → AuPairSync
- Reinstall app (data will sync back after sign-in)
Slow Sync / App Feels Sluggish
Symptoms:
- App takes long time to load
- Changes take minutes to appear
- Spinning indicators for extended periods
Causes & Solutions:
Cause 1: Poor Internet Connection
- Test internet speed (use Fast.com or Speedtest app)
- Solution: Switch from Wi-Fi to cellular data (or vice versa)
- Solution: Move closer to Wi-Fi router
- Solution: Restart Wi-Fi router
Cause 2: Large Photo Library
- Too many photos in activity logs
- Solution: Archive old activities (Settings → Data → Archive)
- Solution: Delete unnecessary photos
Cause 3: Low iPhone Storage
- Settings → General → iPhone Storage
- If available storage < 1 GB, delete unused apps or photos
- AuPairSync needs ~500 MB for optimal performance
Cause 4: Outdated App/iOS
- Update AuPairSync (App Store → Updates)
- Update iOS (Settings → General → Software Update)
- Restart iPhone after updates
Still slow? Contact support with:
- Internet speed test results
- iPhone model and iOS version
- How long sync typically takes
🔔 Notification Issues
Not Receiving Any Notifications
Solution Steps:
Step 1: Check iPhone Notification Settings
- Open Settings app
- Tap Notifications
- Scroll to AuPairSync
- Verify settings:
- ✅ Allow Notifications: ON
- ✅ Lock Screen: ON
- ✅ Notification Center: ON
- ✅ Banners: ON
- ✅ Sounds: ON (optional)
- ✅ Badges: ON (optional)
Step 2: Check In-App Notification Settings
- Open AuPairSync
- Tap Settings → Notifications
- Verify these are enabled:
- ✅ New messages
- ✅ Task assignments
- ✅ Calendar reminders
- ✅ Activity updates
- ✅ Family updates
Step 3: Check Do Not Disturb / Focus Modes
- Settings → Focus
- Verify Do Not Disturb is OFF
- If using Focus modes, add AuPairSync to "Allowed Apps":
- Tap your Focus mode (Work, Sleep, etc.)
- Tap Apps → Add Apps
- Select AuPairSync
Step 4: Check Low Power Mode
- Settings → Battery
- If Low Power Mode is ON, notifications may be delayed
- Turn OFF for immediate notifications
Step 5: Reinstall Notification Permissions
- Open AuPairSync
- Settings → Notifications
- Tap "Reset Notification Permissions"
- Accept permission prompt when it appears
✅ Issue resolved!
❌ Still not working? Contact support
Receiving Too Many Notifications
Solution:
Option 1: Adjust Notification Types
- Open AuPairSync
- Settings → Notifications
- Disable notification types you don't want:
- Messages (⚠️ careful - you'll miss family messages)
- Task assignments (recommended to keep ON)
- Calendar reminders (recommended to keep ON)
- Activity updates (can safely disable)
- Family updates (can safely disable)
Option 2: Adjust Message Notifications
- Settings → Notifications → Messages
- Choose notification frequency:
- Immediate - Every message instantly
- Summary - Batched every hour
- Off - No message notifications (not recommended)
Option 3: Mute Individual Conversations
- Open Messages tab
- Long-press on conversation
- Tap "Mute Notifications"
- Choose duration (1 hour, 1 day, forever)
Option 4: Quiet Hours
- Settings → Notifications → Quiet Hours
- Enable "Quiet Hours"
- Set time range (e.g., 9 PM - 7 AM)
- Notifications are silenced during this time
📸 Photo & Media Issues
Photos Not Uploading
Solution Steps:
Step 1: Check Photo Permissions
- Open iPhone Settings
- Scroll to AuPairSync
- Tap Photos
- Select "All Photos" (not "Selected Photos")
Step 2: Check Photo File Size
- AuPairSync maximum: 10 MB per photo
- Check photo size:
- Open Photos app
- Select the photo
- Tap share button → Options
- Look at file size
- If over 10 MB:
- Use "Medium" or "Small" quality when sharing
- Or compress photo using third-party app
Step 3: Check Internet Connection
- Photos require stable connection
- Switch between Wi-Fi and cellular
- Wait for strong signal before uploading
Step 4: Check Available Storage
- Settings → General → iPhone Storage
- Free up space if less than 500 MB available
- Delete unused apps or photos
Step 5: Retry Upload
- Force-quit AuPairSync
- Reopen app
- Navigate back to photo upload screen
- Try again
Step 6: Try Alternative Method
- Instead of uploading from library, try "Take Photo"
- Photos taken directly in app may upload more reliably
✅ Issue resolved!
❌ Still failing? Email support@aupairsync.com with:
- Screenshot of error message
- Photo file size
- Internet connection type (Wi-Fi or cellular)
Photos Appear Blurry or Low Quality
Explanation:
AuPairSync compresses photos to save storage and improve upload speed.
Maximum Quality Settings:
- Settings → Media → Photo Quality
- Select "High Quality" (vs. "Standard" or "Low")
- Note: High quality uses more storage and data
Original Quality:
- AuPairSync does NOT store original full-resolution photos
- This is intentional to keep app fast and storage low
- Original photos remain in your iPhone Photos library
For Important Photos:
- Share full-resolution photos via AirDrop or iCloud outside AuPairSync
- Use AuPairSync for everyday documentation and quick sharing
Can't Access Camera or Photo Library
Solution:
Step 1: Check Camera Permission
- Settings → AuPairSync → Camera
- Enable if disabled
Step 2: Check Photos Permission
- Settings → AuPairSync → Photos
- Select "All Photos"
Step 3: Restart App
- Force-quit AuPairSync
- Reopen app
- Try accessing camera/photos again
Step 4: Reinstall App (Nuclear Option)
- Delete AuPairSync (data is safe - stored in cloud)
- Reinstall from App Store
- Sign in
- Accept permission prompts when asked
🔐 Account & Authentication Issues
Forgot Password
Solution:
- Open AuPairSync
- Tap "Sign In"
- Tap "Forgot Password?"
- Enter your email address
- Tap "Send Reset Link"
- Check email (including spam/junk folder)
- Click reset link in email
- Create new password
- Sign in with new password
Didn't receive email?
- Check spam/junk/promotions folder
- Verify email spelling is correct
- Wait 5 minutes (email may be delayed)
- Try again
- If still not received: Email support@aupairsync.com
Can't Sign In / "Invalid Email or Password"
Solution Steps:
Step 1: Verify Email Spelling
- Check for typos
- Verify correct email address
- Check with family member what email was used
Step 2: Reset Password
- Tap "Forgot Password?"
- Follow password reset process
Step 3: Check Account Status
- Account may have been deleted
- Email support@aupairsync.com to verify
Step 4: Check Internet Connection
- Sign-in requires internet
- Switch between Wi-Fi and cellular
Invitation Code Not Working
Common Issues:
Error: "Invalid Invitation Code"
- Code may have expired (codes expire after 7 days)
- Ask host family to generate new code
- Verify code spelling (no spaces, correct characters)
Error: "Code Already Used"
- Each code can only be used once
- Request new invitation code
Error: "Family Full"
- Family account may have reached member limit
- Contact host family to resolve
Still not working?
Email support@aupairsync.com with:
- Invitation code
- Error message (screenshot)
- Host family contact information
📅 Calendar Issues
Calendar Events Not Showing
Solution Steps:
Step 1: Check Filters
- Open Calendar tab
- Tap filter icon (funnel, top right)
- Verify no active filters
- Tap "Clear All Filters"
Step 2: Check Date Range
- Swipe to current date
- Verify you're looking at correct month/week
- Events may be in past or future
Step 3: Refresh Calendar
- Pull down to refresh
- Wait for sync to complete
Step 4: Check Family Membership
- Settings → Family
- Verify you're in correct family
- Events are family-specific
Step 5: Check Event Assignment
- Events may be assigned to other family members
- Clear filters to see all events (not just yours)
Can't Edit or Delete Calendar Events
Explanation:
Only the event creator can edit or delete events.
Solution:
- Ask event creator to make changes
- Or ask creator to delete event so you can recreate
Future Feature:
We're working on shared editing permissions for families.
✅ Task Issues
Tasks Not Appearing
Check:
- Tap Tasks tab
- Verify filter: "All Tasks" (not just "My Tasks")
- Check completed tasks aren't hidden
- Pull down to refresh
Still missing?
- Task may have been deleted
- Check with family member who created task
Can't Mark Task Complete
Common Cause:
- Task assigned to different family member
- Only assignee can mark complete
Solution:
- Ask assignee to mark complete
- Or reassign task to yourself first
💬 Message Issues
Messages Not Sending
Solution Steps:
Step 1: Check Internet
- Verify connection
- Messages require internet
Step 2: Check Recipient
- Verify recipient is in your family
- Can't message people outside family
Step 3: Wait for Retry
- App automatically retries failed messages
- Wait 1-2 minutes
Step 4: Force-Quit and Retry
- Force-quit app
- Reopen
- Message should send
Step 5: Resend Message
- Long-press on failed message
- Tap "Resend"
Can't See Message History
Check:
- Messages tab
- Scroll down to see older messages
- Pull down to load more
Messages automatically load as you scroll.
Missing specific conversation?
- Conversation may have been deleted
- Check with family member
📱 App Performance Issues
App Crashes or Freezes
Immediate Solution:
- Force-quit app (swipe up in app switcher)
- Restart iPhone
- Reopen AuPairSync
If Crashes Persist:
Step 1: Update iOS
- Settings → General → Software Update
- Install any available updates
Step 2: Update AuPairSync
- App Store → Updates
- Install AuPairSync update
Step 3: Free Up Storage
- Settings → General → iPhone Storage
- Delete unused apps/photos
- Need at least 1 GB free space
Step 4: Offload and Reinstall
- Settings → General → iPhone Storage → AuPairSync
- Tap "Offload App" (keeps data)
- Tap "Reinstall App"
- Sign in again
Step 5: Report Crash
- Crashes auto-reported to developers
- Email details to support@aupairsync.com:
- What were you doing when crash happened?
- Does it crash repeatedly?
- iPhone model and iOS version
App Draining Battery
Common Causes:
Background App Refresh:
- Settings → General → Background App Refresh
- Find AuPairSync
- Turn OFF (messages will still sync when app is open)
Location Services (if enabled):
- Settings → Privacy → Location Services
- Find AuPairSync
- Select "Never" (app doesn't need location)
Notifications:
- Reduce notification frequency
- Settings → Notifications → adjust
Old iPhone:
- Older iPhone models may struggle
- Consider updating device
🆘 Emergency: Lost Access to Family Account
Scenario:
Parent/host deleted account or left, you're locked out.
Solution:
For Au Pairs:
- Contact host family immediately
- Ask them to create new account
- They send new invitation code
- Rejoin with new code
For Parents:
- If account was deleted accidentally:
- Email support@aupairsync.com within 24 hours
- Account may be recoverable
- If account permanently deleted:
- Create new account
- Re-enter family information (cannot be recovered)
- Invite au pair with new code
Prevention:
- Use password manager to save credentials
- Share account access with spouse/partner
- Export data regularly (Settings → Privacy → Export Data)
Still Stuck?
If none of these solutions work:
📧 Email Support: support@aupairsync.com
Include:
- Detailed description of problem
- Steps you've already tried
- Screenshots or screen recordings
- Device model and iOS version
- App version (Settings → About)
Response Time: 24-48 hours
Last Updated: January 2025
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