Troubleshooting Guide

Step-by-step solutions for common AuPairSync issues. If these don't solve your problem, contact support.


🔄 Sync & Connection Issues

App Won't Sync / Data Not Updating

Symptoms:

  • Changes not appearing for other family members
  • Calendar events showing old information
  • Messages not sending
  • Tasks not updating

Solution Steps:

Step 1: Check Internet Connection

  1. Open Safari and try loading a webpage
  2. Verify Wi-Fi is connected (Settings → Wi-Fi)
  3. Or verify cellular data is enabled (Settings → Cellular)

If internet works, proceed to Step 2

If internet doesn't work, reconnect to Wi-Fi or enable cellular data

Step 2: Force Refresh

  1. Open AuPairSync
  2. Navigate to any screen (Calendar, Tasks, Messages)
  3. Pull down from top of screen and release
  4. Wait for refresh spinner to complete

If data updates, issue resolved!

If data still old, proceed to Step 3

Step 3: Force-Quit and Reopen

  1. Swipe up from bottom of screen (or double-click home button)
  2. Find AuPairSync in app switcher
  3. Swipe up on AuPairSync to force-quit
  4. Tap AuPairSync icon to reopen
  5. Wait 30 seconds for sync

If data updates, issue resolved!

If data still old, proceed to Step 4

Step 4: Sign Out and Sign In

  1. Open AuPairSync
  2. Tap SettingsAccount
  3. Scroll to bottom
  4. Tap "Sign Out"
  5. Tap "Sign In"
  6. Enter your email and password
  7. Wait for sync to complete

If data updates, issue resolved!

If data still old, proceed to Step 5

Step 5: Restart iPhone

  1. Press and hold Side Button + Volume Down
  2. Slide to power off
  3. Wait 10 seconds
  4. Press and hold Side Button to turn on
  5. Open AuPairSync
  6. Wait for sync

If data updates, issue resolved!

If data still old, contact support

Advanced Troubleshooting:

  • Check with other family members if they can see updates (isolate issue)
  • Update iOS: Settings → General → Software Update
  • Update AuPairSync: App Store → Updates → AuPairSync
  • Reinstall app (data will sync back after sign-in)

Slow Sync / App Feels Sluggish

Symptoms:

  • App takes long time to load
  • Changes take minutes to appear
  • Spinning indicators for extended periods

Causes & Solutions:

Cause 1: Poor Internet Connection

  • Test internet speed (use Fast.com or Speedtest app)
  • Solution: Switch from Wi-Fi to cellular data (or vice versa)
  • Solution: Move closer to Wi-Fi router
  • Solution: Restart Wi-Fi router

Cause 2: Large Photo Library

  • Too many photos in activity logs
  • Solution: Archive old activities (Settings → Data → Archive)
  • Solution: Delete unnecessary photos

Cause 3: Low iPhone Storage

  1. Settings → General → iPhone Storage
  2. If available storage < 1 GB, delete unused apps or photos
  3. AuPairSync needs ~500 MB for optimal performance

Cause 4: Outdated App/iOS

  1. Update AuPairSync (App Store → Updates)
  2. Update iOS (Settings → General → Software Update)
  3. Restart iPhone after updates

Still slow? Contact support with:

  • Internet speed test results
  • iPhone model and iOS version
  • How long sync typically takes

🔔 Notification Issues

Not Receiving Any Notifications

Solution Steps:

Step 1: Check iPhone Notification Settings

  1. Open Settings app
  2. Tap Notifications
  3. Scroll to AuPairSync
  4. Verify settings:
    • Allow Notifications: ON
    • Lock Screen: ON
    • Notification Center: ON
    • Banners: ON
    • Sounds: ON (optional)
    • Badges: ON (optional)

Step 2: Check In-App Notification Settings

  1. Open AuPairSync
  2. Tap SettingsNotifications
  3. Verify these are enabled:
    • ✅ New messages
    • ✅ Task assignments
    • ✅ Calendar reminders
    • ✅ Activity updates
    • ✅ Family updates

Step 3: Check Do Not Disturb / Focus Modes

  1. Settings → Focus
  2. Verify Do Not Disturb is OFF
  3. If using Focus modes, add AuPairSync to "Allowed Apps":
    • Tap your Focus mode (Work, Sleep, etc.)
    • Tap AppsAdd Apps
    • Select AuPairSync

Step 4: Check Low Power Mode

  1. Settings → Battery
  2. If Low Power Mode is ON, notifications may be delayed
  3. Turn OFF for immediate notifications

Step 5: Reinstall Notification Permissions

  1. Open AuPairSync
  2. Settings → Notifications
  3. Tap "Reset Notification Permissions"
  4. Accept permission prompt when it appears

Issue resolved!

Still not working? Contact support


Receiving Too Many Notifications

Solution:

Option 1: Adjust Notification Types

  1. Open AuPairSync
  2. Settings → Notifications
  3. Disable notification types you don't want:
    • Messages (⚠️ careful - you'll miss family messages)
    • Task assignments (recommended to keep ON)
    • Calendar reminders (recommended to keep ON)
    • Activity updates (can safely disable)
    • Family updates (can safely disable)

Option 2: Adjust Message Notifications

  1. Settings → Notifications → Messages
  2. Choose notification frequency:
    • Immediate - Every message instantly
    • Summary - Batched every hour
    • Off - No message notifications (not recommended)

Option 3: Mute Individual Conversations

  1. Open Messages tab
  2. Long-press on conversation
  3. Tap "Mute Notifications"
  4. Choose duration (1 hour, 1 day, forever)

Option 4: Quiet Hours

  1. Settings → Notifications → Quiet Hours
  2. Enable "Quiet Hours"
  3. Set time range (e.g., 9 PM - 7 AM)
  4. Notifications are silenced during this time

📸 Photo & Media Issues

Photos Not Uploading

Solution Steps:

Step 1: Check Photo Permissions

  1. Open iPhone Settings
  2. Scroll to AuPairSync
  3. Tap Photos
  4. Select "All Photos" (not "Selected Photos")

Step 2: Check Photo File Size

  • AuPairSync maximum: 10 MB per photo
  • Check photo size:
    1. Open Photos app
    2. Select the photo
    3. Tap share button → Options
    4. Look at file size
  • If over 10 MB:
    • Use "Medium" or "Small" quality when sharing
    • Or compress photo using third-party app

Step 3: Check Internet Connection

  • Photos require stable connection
  • Switch between Wi-Fi and cellular
  • Wait for strong signal before uploading

Step 4: Check Available Storage

  • Settings → General → iPhone Storage
  • Free up space if less than 500 MB available
  • Delete unused apps or photos

Step 5: Retry Upload

  1. Force-quit AuPairSync
  2. Reopen app
  3. Navigate back to photo upload screen
  4. Try again

Step 6: Try Alternative Method

  • Instead of uploading from library, try "Take Photo"
  • Photos taken directly in app may upload more reliably

Issue resolved!

Still failing? Email support@aupairsync.com with:

  • Screenshot of error message
  • Photo file size
  • Internet connection type (Wi-Fi or cellular)

Photos Appear Blurry or Low Quality

Explanation:

AuPairSync compresses photos to save storage and improve upload speed.

Maximum Quality Settings:

  1. Settings → Media → Photo Quality
  2. Select "High Quality" (vs. "Standard" or "Low")
  3. Note: High quality uses more storage and data

Original Quality:

  • AuPairSync does NOT store original full-resolution photos
  • This is intentional to keep app fast and storage low
  • Original photos remain in your iPhone Photos library

For Important Photos:

  • Share full-resolution photos via AirDrop or iCloud outside AuPairSync
  • Use AuPairSync for everyday documentation and quick sharing

Can't Access Camera or Photo Library

Solution:

Step 1: Check Camera Permission

  1. Settings → AuPairSync → Camera
  2. Enable if disabled

Step 2: Check Photos Permission

  1. Settings → AuPairSync → Photos
  2. Select "All Photos"

Step 3: Restart App

  1. Force-quit AuPairSync
  2. Reopen app
  3. Try accessing camera/photos again

Step 4: Reinstall App (Nuclear Option)

  1. Delete AuPairSync (data is safe - stored in cloud)
  2. Reinstall from App Store
  3. Sign in
  4. Accept permission prompts when asked

🔐 Account & Authentication Issues

Forgot Password

Solution:

  1. Open AuPairSync
  2. Tap "Sign In"
  3. Tap "Forgot Password?"
  4. Enter your email address
  5. Tap "Send Reset Link"
  6. Check email (including spam/junk folder)
  7. Click reset link in email
  8. Create new password
  9. Sign in with new password

Didn't receive email?

  • Check spam/junk/promotions folder
  • Verify email spelling is correct
  • Wait 5 minutes (email may be delayed)
  • Try again
  • If still not received: Email support@aupairsync.com

Can't Sign In / "Invalid Email or Password"

Solution Steps:

Step 1: Verify Email Spelling

  • Check for typos
  • Verify correct email address
  • Check with family member what email was used

Step 2: Reset Password

  • Tap "Forgot Password?"
  • Follow password reset process

Step 3: Check Account Status

Step 4: Check Internet Connection

  • Sign-in requires internet
  • Switch between Wi-Fi and cellular

Invitation Code Not Working

Common Issues:

Error: "Invalid Invitation Code"

  • Code may have expired (codes expire after 7 days)
  • Ask host family to generate new code
  • Verify code spelling (no spaces, correct characters)

Error: "Code Already Used"

  • Each code can only be used once
  • Request new invitation code

Error: "Family Full"

  • Family account may have reached member limit
  • Contact host family to resolve

Still not working?

Email support@aupairsync.com with:

  • Invitation code
  • Error message (screenshot)
  • Host family contact information

📅 Calendar Issues

Calendar Events Not Showing

Solution Steps:

Step 1: Check Filters

  1. Open Calendar tab
  2. Tap filter icon (funnel, top right)
  3. Verify no active filters
  4. Tap "Clear All Filters"

Step 2: Check Date Range

  • Swipe to current date
  • Verify you're looking at correct month/week
  • Events may be in past or future

Step 3: Refresh Calendar

  • Pull down to refresh
  • Wait for sync to complete

Step 4: Check Family Membership

  • Settings → Family
  • Verify you're in correct family
  • Events are family-specific

Step 5: Check Event Assignment

  • Events may be assigned to other family members
  • Clear filters to see all events (not just yours)

Can't Edit or Delete Calendar Events

Explanation:

Only the event creator can edit or delete events.

Solution:

  • Ask event creator to make changes
  • Or ask creator to delete event so you can recreate

Future Feature:

We're working on shared editing permissions for families.


✅ Task Issues

Tasks Not Appearing

Check:

  1. Tap Tasks tab
  2. Verify filter: "All Tasks" (not just "My Tasks")
  3. Check completed tasks aren't hidden
  4. Pull down to refresh

Still missing?

  • Task may have been deleted
  • Check with family member who created task

Can't Mark Task Complete

Common Cause:

  • Task assigned to different family member
  • Only assignee can mark complete

Solution:

  • Ask assignee to mark complete
  • Or reassign task to yourself first

💬 Message Issues

Messages Not Sending

Solution Steps:

Step 1: Check Internet

  • Verify connection
  • Messages require internet

Step 2: Check Recipient

  • Verify recipient is in your family
  • Can't message people outside family

Step 3: Wait for Retry

  • App automatically retries failed messages
  • Wait 1-2 minutes

Step 4: Force-Quit and Retry

  • Force-quit app
  • Reopen
  • Message should send

Step 5: Resend Message

  • Long-press on failed message
  • Tap "Resend"

Can't See Message History

Check:

  1. Messages tab
  2. Scroll down to see older messages
  3. Pull down to load more

Messages automatically load as you scroll.

Missing specific conversation?

  • Conversation may have been deleted
  • Check with family member

📱 App Performance Issues

App Crashes or Freezes

Immediate Solution:

  1. Force-quit app (swipe up in app switcher)
  2. Restart iPhone
  3. Reopen AuPairSync

If Crashes Persist:

Step 1: Update iOS

  • Settings → General → Software Update
  • Install any available updates

Step 2: Update AuPairSync

  • App Store → Updates
  • Install AuPairSync update

Step 3: Free Up Storage

  • Settings → General → iPhone Storage
  • Delete unused apps/photos
  • Need at least 1 GB free space

Step 4: Offload and Reinstall

  1. Settings → General → iPhone Storage → AuPairSync
  2. Tap "Offload App" (keeps data)
  3. Tap "Reinstall App"
  4. Sign in again

Step 5: Report Crash

  • Crashes auto-reported to developers
  • Email details to support@aupairsync.com:
    • What were you doing when crash happened?
    • Does it crash repeatedly?
    • iPhone model and iOS version

App Draining Battery

Common Causes:

Background App Refresh:

  1. Settings → General → Background App Refresh
  2. Find AuPairSync
  3. Turn OFF (messages will still sync when app is open)

Location Services (if enabled):

  1. Settings → Privacy → Location Services
  2. Find AuPairSync
  3. Select "Never" (app doesn't need location)

Notifications:

  • Reduce notification frequency
  • Settings → Notifications → adjust

Old iPhone:

  • Older iPhone models may struggle
  • Consider updating device

🆘 Emergency: Lost Access to Family Account

Scenario:

Parent/host deleted account or left, you're locked out.

Solution:

For Au Pairs:

  1. Contact host family immediately
  2. Ask them to create new account
  3. They send new invitation code
  4. Rejoin with new code

For Parents:

  1. If account was deleted accidentally:
  2. If account permanently deleted:
    • Create new account
    • Re-enter family information (cannot be recovered)
    • Invite au pair with new code

Prevention:

  • Use password manager to save credentials
  • Share account access with spouse/partner
  • Export data regularly (Settings → Privacy → Export Data)

Still Stuck?

If none of these solutions work:

📧 Email Support: support@aupairsync.com

Include:

  • Detailed description of problem
  • Steps you've already tried
  • Screenshots or screen recordings
  • Device model and iOS version
  • App version (Settings → About)

Response Time: 24-48 hours


Last Updated: January 2025
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